Why do we anticipate regret before we make a decision?
Regret Aversion
, explained.What is Regret Aversion?
Regret aversion, also known as regret theory, occurs when a decision is made in order to avoid regretting the alternative decision in the future. Regret can be a powerless and discomforting state, and people sometimes make decisions just to avoid these feelings.
Where it occurs
Have you ever made a choice where you were explicitly aware of the influence of potential future regret on your decision-making? Perhaps a backpacking trip in Europe that you felt compelled to take because you thought that one day in the future you might regret not going. Or it could be that impulsive purchase during a limited-time offer where you told yourself, “I know if I don’t get it now, I’ll probably regret it later.” Regret aversion is our brain’s way of avoiding the emotional pain of regret associated with poor decision-making.
Regret aversion relies on two basic assumptions about humans and their decision-making process: first, that most individuals experience feelings of regret and joy, and second, that individuals contemplate these feelings when making decisions in uncertain situations.1 The belief that we will regret a decision in the future due to current choices is not solely rooted in logical reasoning; it is significantly shaped by emotional anticipation. This anticipation drives individuals to focus more on avoiding regret than on objectively evaluating the potential risks and benefits of their decisions.
While sometimes this fear of regret can just be a rationalization for a certain decision, it can also be a strong emotion that guides your preferences. And while such decisions driven by regret aversion can lead to ideal outcomes, they can also lead us astray. Going back to the earlier examples of the backpacking trip around Europe and the impromptu purchase, while the former may leave you with a lifetime of happy memories and stories to tell friends and family, the latter may take you over your monthly budget because you didn’t actually have the money to pay for it.