The behavioral science behind why we ignore red flags
Welcome to the reality of relationships, where seemingly perfect partners reveal their quirks and idiosyncrasies, leaving us to question whether we've stumbled upon a diamond in the rough or a disaster in epic proportions.
Have you ever found yourself swooning over someone, only to realize they're always late, obsessed with their phone, or have an aversion to basic hygiene? Eurgh. These quirky (or downright undesirable) behaviors, though sometimes irritating or humorous, can and often serve as early warning signs in relationships.
In this exploration of red flags, we'll sift through the different shades of red, separating harmless annoyances from genuine causes for concern. We’ll navigate the minefield of dating dilemmas, aiming to answer one burning question: when should we heed the warnings and when should we simply laugh them off as quirks of human nature?
Disclaimer: the red flags referred to in this article do not cover abuse and abusive relationships. If you suspect that you or a loved one is in danger, please contact the corresponding hotline for your country.
About the Author
Jyn Moriles
Jyn has a degree in communication and media studies whose interests are in development work using research and data analytics. Her previous roles include providing consumer behavior insights to FMCG clients using panel data for Kantar and promoting financial literacy through investor education for the Philippine Stock Exchange. Outside of her work, she enjoys all manner of storytelling.
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